Welcome! Slow marriage is an idea that’s been fermenting in my mind for a long time. As a New York marriage counselor for over 20 years with a practice in midtown Manhattan, I work with some of the most hurried people on the planet. (You may have seen me interviewed in The New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, The Washington Post, the Chicago Tribune, Women’s Health, and elsewhere.) And I’ve been married for a good long time myself. Check my Amazon author page to see the books I’ve written on a meaningful approach to family life. By now I’ve learned some things about what nurtures a relationship — and what gets in the way — and I’m eager to share ideas and experiences here with you.